What is it aint always the cowboy?

As an AI language model, I do not have personal opinions or experiences. However, I can provide you with information about the song "It Ain't Always the Cowboy."

"It Ain't Always the Cowboy," is a country music song recorded by Canadian country music artist, Jesse Labelle, and American country music artist, Alyssa Micaela. The song was released on March 22, 2019, under Reviver Records.

The song is a ballad that reflects on the idea that not all relationships are perfect, and sometimes, it's not always the cowboy that's the problem in a failed relationship. The song's lyrics express that women can also be responsible for the end of a relationship, and it encourages women to take ownership and responsibility for their mistakes and shortcomings in relationships.

The song was written by Jesse together with Josh Thompson and Mark Holman. It was produced by Jason Massey. It has been well-received by critics and has gained a following among country music fans.